I've been angry before Really Angry Roaring, stupid angry. Punching holes in walls and kicking things angry. I've never been proud of those moments. They are the kind of moments you look back at and retreat to some dark corner of the mind where you won't have to see that memory. Shame is certainly there, … Continue reading How Anger Affects Your Life
Being a tough guy is all well and good. Being a tough guy that goes ape because someone looked at them sideways...not so much. Men have always had a sort of mismatch between differing ideas of masculinity. They are supposed to be strong and sturdy and bare great life stresses with a grunt. They are … Continue reading The 3 Indispensable Tools for Building Resilience
We all know the type. Jersey. Cap of some sort, cargo shorts and sandals. Alone while his SO does everything she can to look like she's not with him despite being seated within range his....spittle. Completely oblivious to the fact that he alone is responsible a full half of the noise in a crowded restaraunt. He meets … Continue reading Are you a Basic Bro?
We men. We strong. We hit. We emotionally crippled wrecks. Hulk smash. Look, being a guy has its perks. More perks than otherwise in fact. Let's not argue that point. Seriously. We do have our troubles though. The emotionally inept strong man is a stereotype for good reason. Men are often taught to swallow their … Continue reading To make a man…
My full time job is as a restaurant bartender. It's a good job and I have good co workers. I don't want to do it for the rest of my life, but it suits me just fine. I get to meet and talk to people, I have regulars, I have connections. The people watching … Continue reading Order a drink like a man